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Sunday, September 25, 2011

Getting my hair did (and permed)..in Korea.

I've been meaning to make a post about this for a while.

So, I've now been in Seoul for a little over 13 months.  So far, I have had 2 haircuts and 2 perms.  Yes, you heard right..PERM.

As for the haircuts...I waited almost 5 months before getting it cut for the first time.  There were 2 reasons for this:  1.  I wanted to grow my hair out.  and 2.  I was pretty much afraid of walking into a Korean hair salon where they can't speak English and have them butcher my growing out hair.

When I finally built up enough courage, I went to Park Jun's salon which is a chain all over the city.  There is one semi-close to my house, and I assumed someone there would probably speak English.  I was wrong.  I walked in there after learning the word for "cut" in Korean and imitated scissors with my hand.  The person at the desk proceeded to run all over the salon trying to find someone who could speak English.  He found nobody.  Eventually he gave me a book to choose a picture...so I just tried saying "layers" and that seemed to work.  My coat and bag were taken and I was whipped up into a chair with the lead stylist at the salon.  He dry cut my hair and THEN washed and then his assistant blew in dry all in probably less than 30 minutes.  The cut was fine..nothing too impressive, but it got the job done and only cost 20,000WON (roughly $20..although I'm told that if I hadn't had the lead stylist, it probably would have been slightly cheaper..though this seemed pretty cheap in my book).

The next thing I did to my hair a couple months later was get a setting perm.  I had been eyeing all the Korean girls with wavy hair all year.  I always thought Koreans had naturally straight hair, but then I assumed I must have it all wrong...some do have curls.  I was wrong.  Any Korean person with curly hair has had a PERM.

I noticed that a new hair shop was opening up very close to my house, across the street.  Then one afternoon I found an advertisement for their GRAND OPEN EVENT in the lobby of my building.  I could read the word perm on there because it is phonetically very similar in Korean, and I saw that the price next to it was a mere 30,000WON.  I started google imaging and reading tons of blogs mentioning digital perms, and within a couple days, I walked into the shop to get my first perm.  At the time, I didn't know there was a difference between digital perm and setting perm so I asked for setting perm because I thought that's what the promotion was for.  The woman who did my perm did not speak English, however, her friend did..so she called her and made me talk to her on the phone at least 4 times that day.  I requested loose waves because I didn't want to end up with a frizzy, curly mess.  The setting perm seems to be very similar to a normal perm except that the rollers that were used were hot rollers.  After the rollers were put in, she squirted on some chemicals and I sat with a cap on for a while.  The whole process took about 3 hours that day, but mostly because the shop was mad busy and I had to wait a lot.  Here is what it looked like that day.  It was really mostly wavy and that's how it stayed.  I also washed it the next  day because I was unaware that I shouldn't wash it for 48 hours after so maybe it would have been wavier if I hadn't done that.

setting perm: day of..she kind of blow dried
from the back: maybe 2ish months later

I also curled with a curling iron sometimes toward the end of the lifespan of my first perm.  My hair had always been stick straight and could NOT hold curls produced by an iron.  With the perm, my hair would magically hold the curls!

on my birthday with iron curls (4 months after setting perm?)
After going to that shop for my first perm, I went back a couple months later for another haircut.  I looked at some pictures and talked to the woman's friend on the phone again.  She eventually understood that I just wanted long layers and to cut the dead ends off.  She dry cut my hair ENTIRELY with thinning shears (you know the ones with ridges that stylists in America usually use at the end of a cut just to thin it out a little).  I LOVE these scissors.  I always always requested them.  Anyway, my hair was cut and curled with an iron and I was out the door..no wash..I guess I should have requested that?  It only cost 10,000WON!  The only problem after getting this hair cut is that a lot of my perm was cut out and thinned so much that it started to diminish and I was forced to curl it more often than not if I wanted it to look nice.

SO, I went back again just a few weeks later for my second perm.  This time I requested a digital perm, not knowing the price difference or anything.  I also told her she could do a little bit tighter of a curl because I thought this would make the perm last longer than the first time.  The digital perm is different because she applies the rollers with some kind of solution and some pieces of foam to protect the scalp from the heat.  Once the rollers are all in, they attach each individual roller to cord attached to a machine that evenly distributes heat throughout the head for a set amount of time.  I sat for about 45 minutes, but the heat was only on for 2 sets of 10 minutes each I believe.  Then she applied the neutralizer and I sat for a little wile longer.  There was only one other girl in the shop at the time who was also getting a digital perm so the process went a little faster.  After taking the rollers out and washing, I was basically done.  She applied some product and semi-dried it with a blow drier.  This perm cost 79,000WON...a little pricier than before but WAY cheaper than some of the other prices I've heard of around the city at fancier salons. (someone I know paid 250,000?  crazy. and a ripoff.)

On the first day, it was SO curly.  I was a little nervous, but this time I persevered and didn't wash for ALMOST the full 48 hours.  I mainly put my hair back in a bun so nobody could see the untamed mess.  Here is what it looked like:
digital perm: day of
digital perm: 2 months later

2.5 months later

The final verdict:

Hair cuts in Korea are cheap and awesome.  I like the digital perm the best!  The main reason for this is that I get more satisfaction out of knowing that my hair is really curly and the perm will (hopefully) last longer.  You can see from the pictures that the digital has more of a ringlet type of curl whereas the setting perm was just wavy.  I also highly recommend going into your local hair salons as opposed to the big chains.  I know it's kinda scary, but the price is much better and it's a little more personable.  I will keep going to my salon simply because the stylist now knows who I am (even though she doesn't speak English).  I don't have to fear every time I have to get something done to my hair and explaining to the front desk person my issue.  So far, I'm really happy with my perms and hair experience in Korea.^^

Thursday, September 8, 2011

My trip to the USA.

Another month gone with no update, BUT I went to AMERICA in August!

I'm not sure what I thought it would be like to visit after a whole year away, but it was generally the SAME.  (EXCEPT I got to meet my nephew, Avery, who was non-existent when I left last year!)  Even the stupid MVA was packed with people on a random Thursday afternoon in the middle of the month.    My first time driving after a year felt a little strange, but after the second time, it felt normal again..which is good because I spent a lot of time in my car during the 2 weeks I was there.  Because my time was so limited, I found myself just running around trying to meet up with individual people which was kind of exhausting.  It was nice to get to catch up with so many people though, even just for an hour or two.  

After being in the states for just a couple of days, I found myself starting every sentence that came out of my mouth with the line, "In Korea...~"  It was totally obnoxious, but I couldn't stop.  Although I didn't really experience a huge "culture shock" when arriving in Korea, I experienced a sort of "reverse culture shock" when returning to America.  Walking through the immigration gate in Detroit, the officer casually asked me, "how are you?" to which I responded "pretty good, how bout you?"  Number 1) I was not good.  I had just gotten off a 13 hour flight and was going on my 22nd hour of being awake.  and Number 2) Why is this stranger talking to me? and why can I understand what he's saying?

I had a 4 hour layover in Detroit so I walked around the airport in search of food for a while.  I was thinking to myself..I should find a "fast food" type place because it will be easier for me to order.  Then I remembered, they ALL speak ENGLISH here duh.  Also, the people in the Detroit airport all looked generally dumpy.  I've gotten used to seeing skinny Korean people who look nice 24/7 (i.e.:  Korean Air Flight Attendants who look perfect for 14 hours straight).

catching up with girlfriends
of course I had to make a trip to Seacrets.
I'm an aunt!
family!
my parent's new dog Igloo taking over my bed
cutest nephew Avery!
The main things that were AWESOME about being an American in America were:
-meeting my nephew!
-being able to read things in detail on the backs of stuff in stores such as TARGET and WALMART!
-being able to easily order food at restaurants and converse with the servers/not having to yell out across the room for some help
-being able to ask someone/anyone a question if I need to
-not getting mistaken for a true Korean and being given the Korean menu instead of the English one
-not getting stared at when people hear me speak English on the phone or in public
-eating A LOT of FOOD!!

Anyway, I had a great time at home, and I was not looking forward to coming back to school in the least.  Luckily I had a few days to recover before school started.  Now I've been back for about a week and a half, renewed my gym membership and am starting to get back into the swing of things.  BUT next Mon.-Weds., I have Chuseok break!  I'm going to Muuido with some friends this weekend and then I'll be in Seoul with SH's family for the holiday.  Happy Chuseok yal!